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Category: Tam and Chacham

No Better than a Horse

Posted on Tuesday, 25, July, 2023 by Rabbi

A young student came to Tam and Chacham and asked to receive semichah – rabbinical ordination. Tam was studying from a holy book while Chacham stood at the window looking out at the snow-covered courtyard.

Tam asked the young student about himself, and the student told him he was determined to live a pure and holy life. “interesting”, and how do you do that?” asked Tam. “I pray with strength and devotion, bless the humble meals I eat every day, and spend many hours studying the holy Torah,” answered the young student.

“Your efforts are indeed noteworthy, but do you help others?” inquired Tam.

The student immediately replied, “I don’t interrupt my prayer and study for any reason. I don’t want to come into contact with any impurities which would prevent me from my holy lifestyle.” The young student thought for a moment and then continued, “The study of Torah is the foundation and the study of other things secondary.” (Iggeres ha-v’Kuach, 13th CE).

Tam slowly drew in his breath and commented, “The holy law imposes no asceticism” (Sefer ha-Kuzari 2:51, c. 1125 ce), and then seemed to drift off into thought.

Chacham, looking out of the window, wondered why the young student afflicted his body by drinking nothing but water; had nails in his shoes so that he should suffer pain when he walked each day, even in the coldest weather, he rolled in the snow, and he had someone give him thirty-nine lashes.

Just then, a horse entered the courtyard, drank water from the trough there, and rolled in the snow.

“See,” said Chacham to the young student, “that creature, too, only drinks water, has nails in its shoes, rolls in the snow, and certainly receives more than thirty-nine lashes daily – and it is still no more than a horse.”

faith

The young student was devastated by what Tam and Chacham had said to him. Tam explained that the young student had to learn a bit more before he could be ready to receive semichah – rabbinical ordination.

Chacham gently guided the young student, “Study of Torah is important, but the application to oneself and the world around you is crucial. How can you hope to guide and teach people about peace if you don’t have peace in yourself?”

The disappointment showed in the face of the young student as Chacham continued, “Man is different and not like an animal, as it is written, ‘And the L-rd G-d formed man of the dust of the ground and breathed into his nostrils the breath of life; and man became a living soul.’ (Genesis 2:7)

To be a leader, a teacher, and a resource to the community, a rabbi must realize that we were created from the physical world as well as the spiritual world. People have to understand that they can be of this world and the spiritual world at the same time.”

Tam added, “So long as you live and treat yourself as an animal, you can not share the light of spirituality of the sense of peace to those who need them. Learn more and come back after you have found the holy in the mundane, and then we will consider your request.”

Tam called to the young student and blessed him, “May it be your will, O L-rd our G-d, to establish peace among the students who engage in your Holy Word – the Torah. (Berachos 16b -17a)

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A True Derech – Way

Posted on Thursday, 27, October, 2022Thursday, 11, April, 2024 by Rabbi

Two students of Tam and Chacham were arguing about the true path to spirituality in the world. One student said that the path was built on effort and energy “You must completely devote yourself with all your effort to follow the way of the Torah (Scriptures). To pray, to pay attention, and to live rightly”

The second student strongly disagreed. “It is not effort at all. That is only based on ego. It is pure surrender. To follow the way to do the will of the Holy One, blessed be He, to awaken, is to let go of all things and live the teaching. One’s path should be not of religion, but a way of life.”

Since thew students could not agree on who was right they went to Tam and Chacham. They listened as the first student praised the path of wholehearted effort and when asked by this student, “Is this the true path?” Chacham answered, “You’re. right.” The second student was quite upset and responded powerfully that the path of living one’s faith is the natural way to realize spirituality. When he finished, he asked, “Is this not the true path?” and the Tam replied, “You’re right.” A third student who was sitting there observed, “But masters, they can’t both be right,” and Tam and Chacham smiled and said, “You’re right too!”

You see there are different paths people follow. For the many it may be one way for others another. We say, “And you shall love the L-rd your G-d with all your heart and all your soul and with all your might.” (Deuteronomy 6:5) at different times of the day and the very words encompass all aspects of the community.

Deuteronomy 6:5

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The Taste of the Garden of Eden

Posted on Thursday, 12, May, 2022 by Rabbi

Tam and Chacham were old friends and would frequently travel together to perform various mitzvos and to collect tzedakah for special causes. They both had many students and were repected everywhere they journeyed.

Once, Chacham went to the home of Tam to begin their journey to a faraway village, Tam, wanting everything to begin with a blessing, told his wife,Chana to prepare some­thing to eat quickly so he and Tam could set out on their holy mission.

Now, Tam and his wife were very poor. They had nothing in the house, not even wood for the stove! All Chana had in the way of food was a little bit of flour. How could she pre­pare a meal for her husband’s holy friend who was coming to their home for a meal? So she went out into the field to gather some wood chips for the stove and brought them home. Chana then mixed the flour with some water, without any fat or spices, and served this meager meal to her husband and their guest. After the meal, the two set out on their journey.

When Chacham returned home from their successful trip collecting to marry off an orphan girl, he told his wife that Tam’s wife made the most delicious dish he had ever eaten. In fact it actu­ally had the taste of the Garden of Eden.

Chacham’s wife, Ita Shaidel, knew how far her holy husband was from relishing simple earthly plea­sures, heard that, she hurried to see Chana to learn the se­cret of her cooking. When she arrived at the home of Tam and Chana she asked her, “With what did you season the food you served my husband? He said that it was the most delicious food he had ever eaten, that it had a taste like the Garden of Eden!”

Chana told Ita Shaindel that she really had nothing to serve or anything with which to season the food. But while she was preparing her simple meal, she was praying, “Ribbono Shel Olam – Master of the world, You know that if I had something to serve, I wouldn’t spare a thing to give to this holy rabbi! But what can I do? We don’t have anything in the house! So I’m pleading to You to add savoury spices to this dish I’m making so that Chacham will enjoy my food.” And she continued to pray this way until the food was prepared. “So it seems that the Holy One, blessed be He an­swered my prayer,” she said. “And your husband tasted the flavor of the Garden of Eden in my food.”‘

What gives food its taste is not its physical appearance alone but its spiritual elements. So many people praise their religious leaders by saying that they were so holy, so ascetic, they did not even taste their food. What is true is that many religious leaders are the only ones who really taste the food they eat! Why? Because they don’t just taste the food itself; they taste the holiness in the food, or as this tale puts it, they taste the Garden of Eden. Food served and offered with love tastes of love. Chana put her devo­tion to the Holy One, blessed be He and His servants into the dish she prepared, and Tam and Chacham were on a spiritual level to taste it.

latkes

Matzo Meal Pancakes Chremslach

INGREDIENTS

1 cup matzo meal

6 eggs

2 teaspoons salt

1 1/2 cups water

2 tablespoons sugar

3/4 cup grated onion (optional)

3/4 cup corn oil for frying

DIRECTIONS

Step 1

In a large bowl, combine matzo meal, salt, and sugar. Set aside.

Step 2

Separate egg whites and yolks. Beat egg yolks, and combine with water. Add the yolk mixture to the matzo meal mixture, and let it stand for 30 minutes.

Step 3

Beat egg whites until they are stiff, and fold them into the matzo meal mixture. Add grated onion.

Step 4

Heat corn oil until it sizzles in a deep skillet. Lower heat, and, using a cooking spoon, spoon batter into the pan, creating thin pancakes 3 to 4 inches in diameter. Fry for several minutes, turning when the pancake is firm and the bottom side is golden brown. Fry for another few minutes until the other side is done. Drain on paper towel.

Serve with cinnamon-sugar, applesauce and/or sour cream.

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Feelings for Another

Posted on Wednesday, 2, March, 2022 by Rabbi

You know my shame, and my embarrassment, and my humiliation. (Psalms 69:20)

Tam and Chacham respected every person. Chacham tended to treat those with learning just a bit more. Tam, on the other hand, did not discriminate between people, but honored everyone equally, regardless of a person’s background or beliefs. Never did he say a disrespectful word to anyone.

Tam and Chacham were once walking along a path in the woods with a couple of students when a man with a speech impediment approached them to ask for directions to the doctor’s house in the village. Feeling uneasy about leaving the students and Tam alone in the woods, Chacham decided to give the man directions to the doctor’s house by pointing out the way. Tam asked one of the students to come with him to escort the man all the way to the doctor’s house while Chacham and the other student waited for them to return.

Pirkei Avos 2:15

When Tam and the student returned, he explained that he did not want the man to have to ask someone else for directions so as not to be too embarrassed to show his speech impediment to yet another person. “He approached us because he saw a group of men dressed as respectable teachers and students and felt secure that we would not ridicule him. I wanted to save his having to ask again and thereby spare him any unnecessary embarrassment.” explained Tam.

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Holy Dance and Song Before the Shabbos Table

Posted on Wednesday, 22, December, 2021Friday, 22, March, 2024 by Rabbi

Tam and Chacham traveled together and once came to a village on Friday afternoon. As Shabbos began, they sensed the presence in the town of a holy soul radiat­ing great light. The sky was clear and the stars shined brightly as they walked around the village hoping to find the source of that light. As they neared an old house and they saw a bright light coming out of it. They moved closer to an open cracked window and heard a beautiful melody and saw a man dancing round a table. And strangest of all, his wife was seated at the table as he sang and danced. Tam and Chacham walked around the outside of the old house until they came to the door. Seeing that the door was slightly open, they went in and saw the man dancing in so much joy before his wife and Shabbos table, which was covered with good food.

The man sang and danced for a long time until he finally stopped and noticed Tam and Chacham. He welcomed his guests warmly and invited them to join him and his wife for the Shabbos meal.

Chacham asked him, “Why do you sing and dance this way before eating?”

The man simply answered, “Before I eat of the wonderful food my wife so carefully and lovingly prepared for Shabbos, I first stand in front of the table and absorb the food’s spiritual essence.”

“Sometimes I become so happy and moved, that I sing and dance.”

What is the food’s “spiritual essence”? It is its divine aspect. A Jewish mystic meditates on how the food has been created and is being kept in existence (like all created things) every minute by G-d’s will. And a person’s profound realization that G-d has created this food to nourish and provide for him leads him to mystic joy.

Salmon Recipe

Sweet and Savory Salmon

INGREDIENTS

1/3 cup Soy Sauce

1 tablespoon Brown Sugar

2 tablespoons Lemon Juice

2-3 cloves Garlic minced

3 tablespoons Honey or Molasses

1-2 pounds Salmon fillet

DIRECTIONS

Mix all ingredients together

Slice salmon fillet into 2-2 1/2″ pieces

Marinade the salmon for 4-8 hours

Place salmon on a drying rack for 1 hour

Bake at 350º for 10 to 15 minutes

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A True Derech – Way

Posted on Tuesday, 12, October, 2021Friday, 28, June, 2024 by Rabbi

Two students of Tam and Chacham were arguing about the true path to spirituality in the world. One student said that the path was built on effort and energy, “You must completely devote yourself with all your effort to follow the way of the Torah (Scriptures). To pray, to pay attention, and to live rightly”

The second student strongly disagreed. “It is not effort at all. That is only based on ego. It is pure surrender. To follow the way to do the will of the Holy One, blessed be He, to awaken is to let go of all things and live the teaching. One’s path should be not of religion, but a way of life.”

Since the students could not agree on who was right, they went to Tam and Chacham. They listened as the first student praised the path of wholehearted effort and when asked by this student, “Is this the true path?” Chacham answered, “You’re. right.” The second student was quite upset and responded powerfully that the path of living one’s faith is the natural way to realize spirituality. When he finished, he asked, “Is this not the true path?” and then Tam replied, “You’re right.” A third student who was sitting there observed, “But masters, they can’t both be right,” and Tam and Chacham smiled and said, “You’re right too!”

You see, there are different paths people follow. For the many, it may be one way for others another. We say, “And you shall love the L-rd your G-d with all your heart and all your soul and with all your might.” (Deuteronomy 6:5) at different times of the day, and the very words encompass all aspects of the community. Every person has different merits and resources and can find a path to serve the Holy One, blessed be He.

Deuteronomy 6:5

May all your tales end with Shalom (peace)

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Tell it to your children, and let your children tell it to their children, and their children to the next generation. (Joel 1:3)

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Thoughts during a Funeral

Posted on Sunday, 10, October, 2021Tuesday, 20, September, 2022 by Rabbi

Tam and Chacham attended a funeral together. Chacham observed that:

“We learn that we are to ‘Deal graciously with the departed that you may be dealt with graciously, mourn, bury and accompany them to the grave.’ (Kesubos 72a), yet many push and shove to get close to the coffin during a funeral so that they can take part in the mitzvah of carrying the deceased and helping to fill in the grave. In this way, they feel that they are doing something for the benefit of the deceased, even though it is as clear as day that even if they didn’t participate, the deceased would still be buried.’ “

“It is certainly a mitzvah to participate in these things, but why don’t people do something which will really benefit the deceased, even after the funeral is over? We have been taught by our holy teachers of the past that a person’s trial, along with the judgment that follows is decided after he is buried – so why don’t people learn from the Holy Writings or say Tehillim (Psalms) for the elevation of the soul of the deceased?”

Chesed Shel Emes

On another occasion, Tam added more on the same matter: “Some people who attend a funeral don’t feel so concerned when they listen to the eulogies. It is written, ‘“funeral orators are punished for delivering false eulogies,’ (Berachos 62a) Too many people think there is no need to be that upset over his death.’ “

”But should we not all be concerned about the trial and judgment that the niftar (deceased) will now be facing? Instead of standing around and exchanging greetings and gossip at the funeral, wouldn’t it be better to be saying Tehillim (Psalms) or thinking thoughts that will bring us to do teshuvah (repentance/retrospection) in order to help the tikkun hanefesh (repair of the soul) of the deceased? It would also be better if after the burial, people would not just go back home and forget about the funeral, thinking that it is over and there is nothing more that can be done. The correct thing would be to go home and pray, asking for the mercy of the Holy One, blessed be He so that the deceased will be spared from any harsh judgment that he might face. It is very important to remember to ‘walk reverently in a cemetery, blessed the deceased say: “tomorrow they will join us, and today they mock us. (Berachos 18a)’ “

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Loshon hara – A Salty Conversation

Posted on Friday, 19, February, 2021Tuesday, 20, September, 2022 by Rabbi

Tam and Chacham once set out together on a journey to do a d’var mitzvah (a deed of religious importance) in a faraway country. They traveled to many places and were welcomed with much respect and honor.

In one village they stopped at an inn known for its high stan­dards of kashrus (kosher). They were seated at a special table set with a linen tablecloth and fine dishes, for the woman who owned the inn recognized them to be learned and holy rabbis.

She had them served promptly, and when they finished the meal she approached them and asked, “So how did you like my food?” she asked the rabbis. “Oh, it was quite good,’ Chacham  replied, ” but the pea soup could have used more salt.”

When the woman left the dining room, Tam turned white. “I can’t believe what you have just done. Every day I try to avoid speaking or listening to loshon hara (unkind speech) and now the Holy One, blessed be He caused me to travel with you. I regret that I came here with you and I am convinced that the purpose of our trip is not for a holy purpose after all. Otherwise this would not have happened.”

Seeing Tam’s reaction, Chacham became confused and upset. “What did I say that was so wrong?” he asked. “I said that the food was good — I only added that the pea soup needed some salt.”

“You simply don’t realize the power of words.” Tam Sadly said. “Our hostess probably doesn’t do her own cooking. Her cook could well be a poor widow who needs this job to support her children. Now, because of what you said, the owner will go back to the kitchen and complain to the cook that the soup didn’t have enough salt. In self defense the poor widow will deny it and will say, “Of course I put enough salt in the soup. I even tasted it before you served it.”

“The owner will then accuse her of lying and say, “Do you think that the rabbis out there are liars? You are the one who is lying!” They will argue, strong words will lead to even stronger words and the owner will get so angry that she will fire the poor cook. The woman will then be out of a job. Look how many aveiros (sins) you caused:

  • You spoke loshon hara;

  • you caused the owner and myself to listen to loshon hara;

  • you caused the owner to repeat the loshon hara and that is the sin of rechilus (gossip);

  • you caused the cook to lie;

  • because of you the owner caused pain to a widow, and

  • you caused an argument, another Torah violation.”

Chacham smiled at Tam and said softly and respectfully, “Tam, my friend, certainly things are not as grim as you believe. Maybe, you are exag­gerating a little. You’re carrying this just a bit too far. A few simple words cannot possibly have done all that.”

Tam reminded Chacham, “We learn that ‘You shall not oppress a hired servant who is poor and needy, whether he is of your brothers, or of your strangers who are in your land inside your gates.’ (Deuteronomy 24:14) “If you really believe that I have overstated the situation,” answered Tam as he stood up, “let’s go to the kitchen and see for ourselves.”

As they opened the door to the kitchen, they saw that the owner was indeed scolding the cook as the poor woman stood wiping the tears from her eyes. When Chacham saw what was happening he became pale and ran over to the cook, begged forgiveness and apologized profusely for any harm or distress he may have caused her. He pleaded with the owner to forgive and forget the incident and begged her to let the woman stay on the job. He even offered to pay her to keep the cook.

The innkeeper was really a kindly woman and she also wanted to fulfill Chacham’s request. “Of course, of course,“ she said hastily. “I only wanted to impress on her the need to be more careful. She is really a fine cook and she will remain here at her job.”

Lashon hara

Split Pea Soup

6 cups broth or water

1 teaspoon dried basil

1 pound dried green split peas, rinsed

1 teaspoon dried oregano

2 medium onions, chopped

1/2 teaspoon dried rosemary

4-6 tablespoons margarine or oil

1/2 teaspoon dried marjoram

1/2 cup grated carrots

1/2 teaspoon ground cumin

1/2 teaspoon salt

2 garlic cloves, minced

1/4 teaspoon pepper

grated carrots and/or sliced scallions, for garnish

Directions

In a large pot or Dutch oven, sauté chopped onions and garlic in margarine or oil until translucent. Add spices and continue sautéing until fragrant. Add split peas and sauté for 5 minutes – stir frequently to avoid sticking.

Slowly add water and bring to a boil. Reduce heat; cover and simmer until peas are tender, about 2-4 hours, stirring occasionally to prevent sticking.

Add salt and pepper; If desired, garnish with grated carrots and green onions.

May all your tales end with Shalom (peace)

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Pursuit of the Yetzer Hara – Evil Inclination

Posted on Monday, 21, December, 2020Tuesday, 20, September, 2022 by Rabbi

Many students gathered to study and learn from Tam and Chacham. One day the students asked about the Yetzer haRa – Evil Inclination, it seemed that everyone had their own understanding. Tam and Chacham entered the Beis Medresh (House of Study) and saw that the students, who had been talking busily, qieted down and looked towards their teachers. Chacham asked, “What were you talking about?”

“Rabbi,” they said, “we were saying how afraid we are that the Evil Inclination will pursue us.”

Chacham started to explain, “The principle that man has absolute free will to choose between good and evil, is a foundation of our faith, as it is written, ‘I call heaven and earth to witness against you today that I have set before you life and death, blessings and curses. Choose life so that you and your children may live’ ” (Deuteronomy 30:19) (Moreh Nevuchim 3:17)

Tam added, “Man makes a harness for his beast; all the more should he make one for the beast within himself, his Evil Inclination.” (Yerushalmi Sanhedrin 10.1)

evil inclination

The students looked at one another as they thought on the words of their teachers. Those distractions of the Evil Inclination that pulled people away from study of the Holy Books and living by example.

Chacham reminded the students that “the Evil Inclination lures man in this world, then testifies against him in the World to Come.” (Succah 52a)

He pause for a moment and continued, “None can can be called saint before death, for none can be trusted to win against the Evil Inclination till the end of life.” (Midrash Tehillim 16.2)

Tam shared that “Without the Yetzer haRa (Evil Inclination), no man would build a house, take a wife, have children and engage in work.” (Genesis Rabbah 9.7)

He continued, “That the Evil Inclination can be directed to good causes, but it takes a lot of faith and study.”

Chacham spoke up and said, “Don’t worry, none of have not gotten high enough for it to pursue you, For the time being, you are still pursuing it.”

 

May it be Your will, O Eternal our G-d and G-d of our ancestors …. to break the yoke of the Evil Inclination in our hearts. (Talmud Yerushalmi, Berachos 4.2)

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Charity – Tzedakah That Sparkles

Posted on Monday, 16, November, 2020Tuesday, 20, September, 2022 by Rabbi

Tam and Chacham collected money to redeem hapless people from prison when their only “crime” was poverty. Sadly many people would fall behind in paying their debts and wealthy landowners would throw them into prison until someone redeemed them.

There was one particular wealthy merchant who would always contribute generously to have people released from captivity. When Tam and Chacham approached him on this one occasion, he was was surprised that they asked for a very large donation so they could redeem some unfortunate people out of prison.

When the wealthy merchant told his wife about the large sum Tam and Chacham sked for, she went and sold many of her diamonds as well as some of her other jewelry.

She then took the coins, polished them until they sparkled brightly, and sent them to Tam and Chacham, saying, “Among the donations to build the Mishkan (Tabernacle) in the desert, there was gold, silver, and copper. But the only things that sparkled were the polished metal mirrors given by the women.”

The merchant’s wife was indeed an Eishes Chayil in that when she does something, it shines and sparkles. This is so for all matters relating to the home—such as hospitality and the children’s education. Although they can also be taken care of by the husband, only when they are done by the wife are they accomplished in the manner of shining sapphires, without any blockage of the divine light, which shines forth. Every person can elevate everyday actions into shining examples as they prepare for the World to Come, when all actions will be elevated.

Tzedakah Charity

There is a traditional concept of doing a mitzvah (deed) beautifully — lighting the Shabbos (Sabbath) candles, beautifying the Yom Tov (Holiday) table, or making Kiddush from a lovely cup and so on. By giving charity in such a beautiful way, the merchant’s wife showed that she was more concerned about the beauty of devotion than about the beauty of her personal appearance. The righteous women mentioned in the Torah who donated their mirrors to build the Mishkan (Tabernacle) also placed devotion to the Holy One, blessed be He above their looks. (see Exodus 38:8) The merchant’s wife reminded Tam and Chacham that although donations to the Tabernacle in the desert involved large amounts of precious metals, only the metal mirrors given by the women sparkled. Why? The metal of the mirrors sparkled because it was finely polished. That polishing signified the preciousness of the mitzvah to the giver. The merchant’s wife gave a large amount of money without begrudging it and considered the mitzvah of charity so precious that she actually polished the coins. When a person does mitzvahs (religious deeds) and makes contributions to help others in this selfless way, he also polishes his own soul.

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