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Bentching Shabbos Licht Saves a Family

Posted on Friday, 1, November, 2019Friday, 25, August, 2023 by Rabbi

Bentching licht, kindling the Holy Lights before Shabbos, brings a healing into the world. The Holy One, blessed be He gave to our holy mothers and sisters the mitzvah of bringing the light of Shabbos into the home and community. Each week as the wicks are carefully prepared the anticipation of Shabbos kodesh (the Holy Sabbath) spreads throughout the house. Such little lights truly make a difference. You may ask, “Isn’t Shabbos itself such a great light? Isn’t Shabbos, as the Talmud says, a torch? Why do you need a little candle?” But you see, you are asking with the mind of six days of the week. Shabbos is indeed a great light, but the little candle, the little fire is so precious, so precious before G-d.

When our women and girls kindle lights, at that one moment, there’s no wall between them and the Holy One, blessed be He. There is no wall between them and their husbands, brothers and their children. There is no wall between them and all of the people. There is no wall between them and the whole world. What a holy moment….

You know, sadly enough, today we’re living in a different world. Sadly enough, so many marriages break up, so many hearts are broken, so many windows are just knocked out. Not so long ago this hardly ever happened.

One day the holy rabbi was told that the wife of one of his students had moved back to her parents. He was so heartbroken, he called the woman and this is what he said, “I want you to know, your husband loves you so much. He is up all night in the synagogue, reciting the Psalms and praying that you should come back to him, because he loves you so much. So I’m begging you, please, please, please, go back to your husband who loves you.

The young woman with a tear in her eye answered, “Rabbi, holy rabbi, let it be clear to you, I didn’t leave my husband because I don’t love him. I love him so much it causes be so much pain to be away from him. Sadly, the Holy One, blessed be He didn’t bless us yet with children, and a house without children is more destroyed than the Holy Temple. A house without laughter, without crying of children, is so lonely, so empty. I couldn’t bare it anymore, so I went back to my parents’ home. Holy rabbi if you want me to go back to my husband, bless me with children.” She was a very clever woman, so added said, “Holy rabbi, if you bless me with children, bless me to have a son like you.”

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The holy rabbi just smiled and he said to her, “I’ll be so happy to bless you to have a son like me, but you have to promise me something: If you will be a mother like my mother, then you will have children like me.”

My mother would pray every day from her heart. She’d close her eyes and begin, “Tatteh Zeeseh, Heilegeh Tatteh (Sweet Father, Holy Father)”. Can you imagine how many tears my mother shed, how many prayers she offered, when she kindled lights before Shabbos? I was so little, but yet I knew; the only one who prayed more than my mother, was the High Priest on Yom Kippur in the Holy of Holies.

One Friday she was crying so much, and I guess she bent over the candles, and her tears fell on the candles. When she opened her eyes, it was already Shabbos. There were no more candles. The tears extinguished the fire. My mother said, “Ribbono shel olam (Master of the World), Heiligeh Tatteh in Himmel (Holy Father in Heaven), I can’t live without the light of Shabbos. Master of the World, Master of the World, Master of the World, how can I have Shabbos without my Shabbosdike licht (Shabbos light)? But it’s already Shabbos, so I’m begging You, Master of the World, please You, You Master of the World, rekindle my light, rekindle my Shabbosdike Licht.”

The holy rabbi said to the woman, “I swear to you, I saw a hand coming down from Heaven and kindling the lights of Shabbos.”

The holy rabbi gave his blessing to the young woman and she went home to her husband. Each Friday night as the sun was setting the young woman would welcome the heiligeh Shabbos (holy Sabbath) with prayers from her heart and one Shabbos before the year was over crying was heard from her home – a child was born.

May the children be blessed to always stand next to their mothers when they light the holy Shabbos candles. What a moment… what a moment…. The deepest moment in Shabbos.

A Gut’n Shabbos – Good Shabbos – Shabbat Shalom

May all your tales end with Shalom (peace)

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An Act of Kindness Saved Shabbos

Posted on Thursday, 24, January, 2019Friday, 26, January, 2024 by Rabbi

She opens her mouth with wisdom, and the lesson of kindness is on her tongue. (Proverbs 31:26)

In the year 1493, all Jewish people who lived in Spain were forced to leave the country. Any Jewish person that remained had to become Christian or be killed. It was against the law to keep the Torah and mitzvos (commandments) especially Shabbos and holidays. Many Jewish people did not want to leave the country without their belongings and means instead they tried to keep the Torah and mitzvos secretly. It was a very dangerous and terrifying time.

The Francesco family was among those who remained in Spain and kept their Torah observance secretly. Every week, the mother, Rachel, lit her Shabbos (Sabbath) candles and welcomed the Shabbos – Holy Sabbath into their home. She made sure that all windows and doors were shut tightly so that no neighbor could see. The Grandmother sat quietly on the side remembering better times for her family and how her family would gather together each Friday evening to celebrate Shabbos together. Michoel, the father, davened (prayed) kabbalas Shabbos (Welcoming the Sabbath service) with his two sons. They did this silently, so that no neighbor could hear.

Shabbos Shabbat candles

Sadly, few secrets remain hidden for long. Peeking through a crack in the wooden window slat, someone looked into their house. This wicked neighbor saw Michoel praying with his two sons and the two lit candles on the table. He immediately ran to notify the police.

“I have found secret Jews keeping their Saturday Sabbath,” he announced. The police rushed to the Francesco house and banged loudly at the door. “Open up,” a harsh voice commanded. “We know there are secret Jews hiding in this house. Open the door or we will break it down!”

Michoel was filled with fear, yet he had no choice but to let the police in. The captain came into their house followed by his troops. “Tie their hands and march these Jewish renegades to the church. The Inquisition will punish them!”

Everyone in the Francesco house quivered with fear; they were terrified. They were sure they would be killed. Suddenly, the captain of the police noticed the Grandmother. I know this woman, he thought. I remember this kind woman from when I was a child. Every morning, she gave me candies when I passed by her house. And whenever I felt hurt or someone was mean to me she was always so kind and gentle. I cannot harm her or her family, his conscious told him.

“No, no, no,” barked the captain to the troops. “We are mistaken! I know these people. They are not Jewish. The man was probably just talking with his sons. And those two candles on the table are probably lit to light up the house on this dark evening.”

“Soldiers, return to your homes,” said the captain. “Let us not disturb these people anymore!” Michoel was stunned and could not believe what he was hearing. The captain winked at Michoel as he and his troops left the house.

Michoel breathed a giant sigh of relief and raised his hands to Hashem (G-d) thanking him for the great miracle of saving him and his family. He then told his family “We must continue with all our strength and mesiras nefesh (Self-sacrifice) to adhere to Torah and mitzvos and never desecrate the holy Shabbos.

That night long ago reminded the Francesco family that “Whoever pursues righteousness and kindness will find life and honor.” (Proverbs 21:21)

May all your tales end with Shalom (peace)

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Tell it to your children, and let your children tell it to their children, and their children to the next generation. (Joel 1:3)

Rachmiel Tobesman is a motivational speaker and Maggid (spiritual Storyteller). He is available for speaking engagements or storytelling, Click here to contact us

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Shabbos Lights Strengthen and Protect

Posted on Friday, 30, November, 2018Friday, 29, March, 2024 by Rabbi

An old woman lit her Shabbos candles and smiled as she drew in the holiness of Shabbos – the Holy Sabbath Day. Her three grand-daughters watch her carefully as they had so many times and wondered why she always smiled each week in front of the Shabbos candles .

“Bubbie, why do you always smile when you bentch Shabbos licht (light the Shabbos candles)?” asked her oldest grand-daughter. The old woman seemed to look beyond her grand-daughters and slowly said, “ki eshmerah Shabbos Keil yishmereini — “When I guard the Shabbos, Hashem (G-d) will safeguard me.” She took a long breath and continued,  “It happened so long ago…”

The skies were leaden and the strong winds roared furiously. The trees were shedding their leaves at a rapid rate, so that streets newly swept had to be swept again. Leaves and bits of litter danced haphazardly on the wind’s back.

It was a dismal scene, certainly not one calculated to warm the broken hearts of the Jewish prisoners working in the munitions factory. About a thousand Jewish women labored there. Supervision was constant and harsh. From time to time a female S.S. supervisor would make a surprise inspection; these visits usually ended in heavy punishments.

On this gray autumn day, a piece of exciting information was whispered in my ear.

“I’ve gotten hold of candles — Shabbos candles. Do you want to light them, Miriam?”

I stared at my friend. She smiled, saying, “Don’t you believe me? Shabbos candles! I found some wax in the department where I work. I melted it down in one of these boxes — and here they are. Shabbos candles!”

My heart soared. Shabbos lights, in the very midst of the darkness that pressed in on us from every side! In the center of the arctic menace, a tiny pinpoint of light and warmth — the Shabbos flames.

In that instant, I forgot the S.S. overseers, forgot instruction manuals,  arms and missiles, forgot the cold and the whips and the starvation rations. I forgot the image of the loaded gun that was never far from my inner eye. In short, I forgot where I was. The whispered secret I had just heard had the power to spirit away the ugly munitions factory and everything in it.

“Well?” my friend asked. “Do you want to light the candles?”

“Yes!”

“Aren’t you afraid?”

“Afraid — of what?”

“The whip, the gun, the gas chamber — “

I cut her off. “I’m afraid of the stick in the hand of my Father in Heaven. I intend to fulfill my obligations as a Jewish woman.”

That night, my friend smuggled her treasure to me. There were two simple candles, concealed in a long cylinder. I clutched them to my heart, feeling almost as if I had found my lost child, snatched out of my arms many days before —as if I had found a portion of my own heart that they had stolen away.

What power did those candles have? How were they were able to ignite such a flame inside me? I had no explanation. I only knew that I sensed the souls of all the righteous women through the ages reaching out to me through those candles. Perhaps, too, I saw my mother’s covered face, and felt her spirit illuminate my subdued and broken heart.

I hid the candles in my bag — a collection of rags, actually, in which I occasionally managed to store a crust of bread for some sick friend. There were still two days until Shabbos, two days of unremitting gloom. Those two days seemed infused with the light to come — the light of Shabbos. At last I understood our Sages’ words: “Zachor es yom haShabbos” — Remember the Shabbos, remember it every day. If you come across some delicacy that will not spoil, buy it in honor of the Shabbos. I had no delicacy, no special food for Shabbos, but I had something very valuable indeed — Meyn heilige Shabbos licht – my holy Shabbos candles.

Friday came. In my room, 14 Jewish girls had completed the day’s work and were preparing to welcome the Shabbos Queen. The room was unfurnished except for a single old chest and our cots. I placed the candles atop the chest. I wanted to give all my friends the opportunity to share in my mitzvah by answering “Amen.”

The time for candle lighting approached. It was the lovely hour before sunset; the western skies were already stained crimson and purple. Today it seemed seven times more beautiful than usual, as though the sun itself had decided to adorn our room in honor of the Shabbos before sinking out of sight. A ray of sunlight wandered into the room and rested for a moment on the candles. It gave them a golden glow, making the simple homemade candles seem taller, nobler. Even as I trembled, the ray trembled, too, and moved on.

Thirteen pairs of eyes fixed themselves on me. Some of them reflected the fear we all shared — the fear that the enemy would intrude on our precious sanctuary. Every eye shone with the fire that had been kindled in every heart. Each one of us knew how closely her own being was bound with the lighting of those candles. We were ready for anything.

I stepped up to the candles. “Just like my mother used to do,” I heard someone whisper behind me. I sensed rather than saw the way the others nodded their heads, their throats choked with tears.

I struck a match, and lit the candles.

I passed my hands over the candles and was about to bring my fingertips to my eyes when, suddenly, heavy footsteps sounded in the corridor. We recognized those footsteps. They belonged to our S.S. supervisor. Our hearts stopped.

Holocaust Shabbat Candles

Quickly, I covered my eyes and recited the blessing. “Blessed are You … to light the Shabbos candle.” I remained where I was, hands over my eyes, pleading in a strange, strangled voice, “Master of the Universe, You know that I did not do this for my own pleasure or honor. I did it to honor You, to honor the holy Shabbos, so that everyone would remember that You created the world in six days and rested on the seventh.”

The supervisor flung open the door. With a single glance she took in the entire scene. We all stood frozen in a silence that seemed shatterproof. As I continued praying with covered eyes, she stood silent, astounded.

When I removed my hands, I heard her issue a sharp order. “Go outside to the waiting truck!”

The other girls hurried to obey her command, with the S.S. woman following close behind. I was left alone in the room. I looked at the candles. “Will my lighting these candles lead to all my friends being carted away to who-knows-where?” I wondered, near despair.

The flames burned brightly as my lips moved in soundless prayer. I felt as though all of history’s good women were bearing my prayers directly to the Holy Throne. And then peace returned, and I knew with certainty: My friends would not be harmed because of these holy candles.

Slowly, I walked outside to join the others. A short distance away, I saw the parked truck. I tentatively made my way toward it. Just as I arrived, my friends appeared from behind the truck, bearing loaves of bread.

Their faces were serene as they explained, “She ordered us to take these loaves to the kitchen.”

Uncontrollably, I said the blessing. “she’asah nisim la’avoseinu bayamim haheim baziman hazeh – Blessed are You Who performed miracles for our ancestors in those days at this time”and then I whispered, “ki eshmerah Shabbos Keil yishmereini –  When I guard the Shabbos,  Hashem (G-d) will safeguard…”

I lifted my eyes heavenward. The sun had not yet sunk beneath the rim of the horizon. A last stripe of light lingered at the western edge of the sky, as though to proclaim the miracle. Then, its job finished, it disappeared — and the Shabbos Queen descended on the world.

Gut Shabbos meyn zissele kinderlach – Good Shabbos my sweet children

May all your tales end with Shalom (peace)

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