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Women and Chanukah

Posted on Friday, 11, December, 2020Tuesday, 20, September, 2022 by Rabbi

Many girls and women ask questions about everything about Jewish women and seek answers that are sometimes very elusive. They become frustrated over the apparent the double standards of many religious people. They feel it is hard to assert their individuality in a society with so many demands (how to dress, how to eat, how to communicate, etc.).

Who carried the Jewish tradition from generation to generation? Whose unwritten wisdom upholds it? An automatic first response might be “the Rabbis.” A more complete, more thoughtful answer would be “the women.”

It is hard to define aspects of Jewish tradition—the feel of it, the smells of a special foods and meals, the warmth of a gentle touch, the part that cannot be captured in words, that remain unwritten but enduring —were for generations the domain of Jewish women. Their wisdom finely guided and molded the character of Jewish life. We find this in food, stories and memories.

Women are special in the Jewish community, but many times the girls and women counter that all there is, is chauvinism and foolish limitations. It seems that the prevailing attitudes in our culture have replaced the long history of learning and teaching.

Chanukah is a holiday that is celebrated due to the sacrifices and deeds of women. Many don’t realize that Jewish law establishes that so long as the Chanukah lights burn, woman are exempt from work.

Jewish Women

As we eat the sizzling latkes let us realize that their wisdom has molded and defined the character of Jewish life. We find this throughout our history and teachings. We also find it in the Chanukah story, in the remarkable characters of Chana and Yehudis.

One of the major victories over the Syrian-Greeks came about through the heroism of a woman. Yehudis, daughter of Yochanan the High Priest, spoke to the people in her besieged city to have faith in the Holy One, blessed be H, but the people weakened by starvation and fear wanted to surrender the city. Yehudis left the city under the cover of night and went to the commanding general, Holofrenes, and first fed him cheese dishes which made him thirsty (the source for eating dairy foods on Chanukah). She then brought him wine to quench his thirst. When he became drunk and fell asleep, she beheaded him and hung it from the city walls. When the enemy soldiers saw the head of their decapitated leader, they fled.

The Syrian-Greeks and their supporters, tried to destroy the Jewish way of life by forcing people to abandon their Judaism. Chana had seven sons each were brought before Antiochus and told to bow to him and recognize his god. Each son refused. As the last of her sons was taken to be executed she told him, “My son, go and tell your father Abraham: You bound one son upon the altar; I bound seven children on seven altars.”

The legacy Jewish women represent continues wherever the Jewish tradition is guided, enriched, and uplifted by her daughters, the bearers of Judaism’s enduring legacy.

May your Chanukah lights burn bright and may all your tales end with Shalom (peace)

Potato Latke Recipe

1 1/2 pounds baking potatoes (3 to 4 potatoes)

1 teaspoon kosher salt

1/2 medium yellow onion, peeled and quartered

1/8 teaspoon freshly ground black pepper

1 large egg

1 egg, beaten

1 cup oil or chicken shmaltz, or a combination of both

2 tablespoons matzo meal

Applesauce and sour cream, for serving

 

Instructions

  • Prepare the potatoes. Scrub the potatoes well, but do not peel. Cut each potato in half crosswise.

  • Grate potatoes and onion with a food processor. Grate the potatoes and onion using the shredding disk of a food processor.

  • Make a cheesecloth tourniquet and squeeze liquid from potato and onion. Transfer the grated potato and onion onto a large triple layer of cheesecloth. Gather the corners and tie around the handle of a wooden spoon. Dangle the bundle over a large bowl, then twist and squeeze the potatoes and onion as hard as you can until no more liquid comes out of the potatoes and onion shreds.

  • Pour off the liquid, but keep the potato starch. Give the liquid a few minutes to allow the potato starch to settle and then pour off and discard the liquid but leave the potato starch.

  • Toss the latke ingredients together with your fingers. Add the potatoes, onion, eggs, matzo meal, salt, and pepper to the bowl of starch. Mix with your fingers, making sure that the potato starch breaks up and is evenly distributed with the rest of the ingredients. Set batter aside for 10 minutes.

  • Heat the oil. Place the oil or schmaltz (or a combination of the two) in a large skillet so that when melted there is a depth of 1/4 inch (for a 10-inch skillet you’ll need 1 cup of melted oil/schmaltz). Heat over medium-high heat until a piece of the latke mixture sizzles immediately.

  • Form latkes one at a time into a 2-4 inch patty. Using a spoon, slide the latkes into the hot oil. Repeat until the pan is full but the latkes aren’t crowded. Cook until deeply golden-brown, 4 to 5 minutes per side, adjusting the heat if necessary.

  • Drain the latkes. Transfer the latkes to a paper towel-lined baking sheet to drain for 2 minutes.

  • Serve with applesauce if using schmaltz or with sour cream and apple sauce if using just oil.

May all your tales end with Shalom (peace)

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The Season of Lights – Chanukah is coming very quickly as it begins at Sundown on November 28, 2021. Most people in the Jewish communities throughout the world can rattle off a list of Chanukah traditions such as lighting the menorah each night; playing dreidel games; eating foods cooked in oil (latkes and Sufganiot); and exchanging gifts.

An age old tradition is telling stories in the glow of the Chanukah menorah. The stories tell of greatness, nobility, and wisdom while at the same time raising the hopes for a better tomorrow.

The very backdrop to the spiritual stories is attractive to its readers allowing one to peek into the beliefs, and lifestyles of a vanishing age of a faraway world and reminding them that the messages are eternal – just as strong today as they were yesterday.

The book, Story Tour: The Journey Begins will remind readers of forgotten stories of faith that strengthen and reaffirm hope for a better world.

Buy a copy of Story Tour: The Journey Begins as a gift for someone special today. Story Tour: The Journey Begins is available from the publisher, Xlibris, Booksamillion, Barnes & Noble, and Amazon

Posted in Chanukah, Chanukah, Faith, Holiday, Holidays, Stories, Uncategorized, Woman, WomanTagged Chana, Chana and her 7 sons, chanukah, Chanukah stories, hanukah, Jewish Stories, jewish women, Judith, short stories, woman, women, Yehudis, YehuditLeave a Comment on Women and Chanukah

Two Copper Coins for Shabbos Lights

Posted on Sunday, 12, January, 2014Friday, 19, January, 2024 by Rabbi

Who carried the Jewish tradition from generation to generation? Whose unwritten wisdom maintains it? Our unthinking first response might be “the rabbis.” A more thorough, more thoughtful answer would the “the women.”

The indescribable aspects of tradition — the feel of it, the smells of a home, the part that cannot be captured in words, that remain unwritten but deep-rooted — were for generations the domain of Jewish women. Their wisdom has constantly molded the character of Jewish life.

Everybody knows about the holiness of the great rabbis, but no one talks so much about their wives. These holy women, like their husbands, were the always engaged in holiness in thought as well as in action.

There was once a holy rabbi who was very, very poor. Things got so bad that one Friday afternoon, the holy rabbi’s wife had just enough money to buy wine for kiddush, challah, and some fish. She also needed to candles for Shabbos lights, and each candle cost a copper coin. She searched the whole house – once, twice,  and three times – hoping to find a copper coin or two that might have fallen on the floor or rolled under a piece of furniture. Sadly, the holy rabbi’s wife found nothing. She was beside herself and she began to cry:

“Ribbono shel Olam, Master of the Universe, how can there be Shabbos without my Shabbos lights? Please, you have to help me – I need just a little help. Please send me money to buy candles for the holy Shabbos.”

Shabbos candles

 The holy rabbi’s wife waited anxiously all Friday afternoon, praying that help would come… Nothing happened. Finally, she couldn’t stand being in the house any longer. She ran outside and stood on a street corner, crying bitter tears: “G-tt in Himmel – G-d in Heaven, it’s almost Shabbos. What am I going to do?”

Suddenly a large carriage pulled by eight strong sturdy horses came racing down the street. When he reached the corner where the holy rabbi’s wife was standing, the driver pulled the reins very hard, and the horses came to a stop. The holy rabbi’s wife recognized the driver immediately, he was one of the wealthiest Jewish people in the whole city, a very handsome young man who was known as a real pleasure seeker. The rich man didn’t know the holy rabbi’s wife. Still he leaned down from his seat high on the carriage and said:

“My dear lady, what’s wrong? Why are you crying so much? I can’t bear to see someone such pain. Please, let me help you.”

The holy rabbi’s wife saw that this man with all of his money, with all of his fine clothes and his reputation for being a pleasure seeker had a heart filled with compassion and love. She said, wiping away her tears: “kind sir, thank you so much for stopping. I really hate to ask you, but do you think you can spare me two copper coins, so I can buy two candles for the holy Shabbos?”

The rich man, began to laugh, “just two copper coins? You know, that I am very, very wealthy. Let me give you more, here’s ten silver coins.”

The holy rabbi’s wife shook her head, “no – I mean, it’s really very good of you, but I cannot accept more than two copper coins. I wouldn’t even ask you for that. Except that it’s l’koved Shabbos, for the honor Shabbos….”

Shabbos - Shabbat

 “Well, if you’re sure…” The wealthy man said, and handed her two copper coins.

The holy rabbi’s wife looked at him for a long moment, and then said, “you’ll never know how much this means to me, and I can never thank you enough. One thing I can do for you though, I bless you with the light of Shabbos, and the World to Come. It should shine into your heart for the rest of your life.”

The rich man touched his cap respectfully, bid the holy rabbi’s wife farewell, and continued on his way. The holy rabbi’s wife hurried to buy her two candles and rushed back to her home. She carefully placed them in the special Shabbos brass candleholders, lit the candles waved the holy light toward her and said the blessing over the candles. She stared at the two flames and allowed them to touch her heart and soul and began a personal prayer:

Shabbos Candle Blessing

On that Shabbos, the house of the holy rabbi glowed with holy light.

That night, the holy rabbi went to shul to daven. Now, most people are doing well if we can just pray the whole evening service with kavannah, with real concentration. The holy rabbi was different, when he prayed, his soul literally took off and went straight up to the upper realms. This particular Shabbos, when he got to the upper world, he saw that the Heavenly Court was in an uproar. As soon as he appeared, the head of the court called out to him:

“There you are, holy rabbi. We’ve been waiting for you. You know, we’re used to you making trouble for us by blessing all who come to you, many of them are absolutely not worthy of blessing. This time however its your wife, she’s following your example. You know what she’s done? She’s, blessed this pleasure seeker -this do-nothing pleasure seeker- with the light of Shabbos! Now you tell us, does he deserve such an honor? Just look at him now, see what he’s doing…”

The holy rabbi looked down toward the Earth. He saw the rich man driving fast along the road in his carriage. He had an appointment with one of his fancy ladies, and he was already very late.

“Do you see?” The head of the court shouted. “He’s driving on Shabbos! And can you imagine where he’s probably going on this the holiest day of days? You know very well that ‘one who willingly and flagrantly does not keep Shabbos is no longer part of the Jewish community. (Yoreh Deah 2:5)’ “

“I have to admit you’re absolutely right,” the holy rabbi replied. “Let me ask you this, why do you think he lives like he does? It’s because he doesn’t know any better. He’s never tasted the beauty of Torah, he’s never felt the light of Shabbos. Here, I have an idea. Bless him with the Shabbos light for just one hour, and let’s see what he does”

The heavenly court reluctantly agreed.

So heaven opened up all the gates for the rich man. Suddenly, the pleasure seeker felt something new come into his heart, something high and exalted. All at once, the world seemed so beautiful, so special, life itself seems so meaningful, so holy. He looked at himself, and his lifestyle, and it was as if he really saw himself for the very first time. “Ribbono shel Olam,” he cried. What have I been doing with my time? I’ve totally wasted my life!”

The rich man reined in his horse and sat still for a moment, confused. He was clear that he wanted his life to change, but he didn’t know how to begin. Then he thought, “I know where to go.” He turned his carriage around and drove back to the street corner where he had met the holy rabbi’s wife, saying to himself, “it’s time that I learned how to keep Shabbos. And what better place to begin the house where my Shabbos candles are burning…”

Nobody knows the man’s name, but he became a student of the holy rabbi and eventually a great leader in the Jewish community. The holiness of his Shabbos light still fills the world with warmth, love and spiritual awakening.

May your Shabbos lights burn bright and

May all your tales end with Shalom (peace)

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Chanukah: The Dedication of Jewish Women

Posted on Wednesday, 24, December, 2008Wednesday, 10, November, 2021 by Rabbi

My daughter questions everything and seeks answers that are sometimes very elusive. She has become frustrated over the apparent hypocrisy of many religious people. She feels it is hard to assert her individuality in a society with so many demands (how to dress, how to eat, how to communicate, etc).

I have told her many times that women are special in the Jewish community, but she often counters that all there is, is chauvinism and foolish limitations. It seems that the prevailing attitudes in our culture have replaced the long history of learning and teaching.

Chanukah is a holiday that is celebrated due to the sacrifices and deeds of women.

Who preserved and nurtured the Jewish tradition from generation to generation? Whose unwritten wisdom upheld it? The first response of many would probably be  “the Rabbis.” A more careful, more thoughtful answer would be “the women.”

The hard to define aspects of Jewish tradition and way of life-the feel of it, the smells of a home, the part that cannot be captured in words, that remain unwritten but lasting -were for generations due to the sacrifices and deeds of Jewish women. Their wisdom has molded and defined the character of Jewish life. We find this throughout our history and teachings. We also find it in the Chanukah story, in the remarkable characters of Chana and Yehudis.

One of the major victories over the Syrian-Greeks came about through the heroism of a woman. Yehudis, daughter of Yochanan the High Priest, spoke to the people in her besieged city to have faith in the Holy One, blessed be H, but the people weakened by starvation and fear wanted to surrender the city. Yehudis left the city under the cover of night and went to the commanding general, Holofrenes, and first fed him cheese dishes which made him thirsty (the source for eating dairy foods on Chanukah). She then brought him wine to quench his thirst. When he became drunk and fell asleep, she beheaded him and hung it from the city walls. When the enemy soldiers saw the head of their decapitated leader, they fled.

The Syrian-Greeks and their supporters, tried to destroy the Jewish way of life by forcing people to abandoned their Judaism. Chana had seven sons each were brought before Antiochus and told to bow to him and recognize his god. Each son refused. As the last of her sons was taken to be executed she told him, “My son, go and tell your father Abraham: You bound one son upon the altar; I bound seven children on seven altars.”

The legacy Jewish women represent continues wherever the Jewish tradition is guided, enriched, and uplifted by her daughters, the bearers of Judaism’s enduring legacy.

May all your tales end with Shalom (peace)

Click here for more storytelling resources

Tell it to your children, and let your children tell it to their children, and their children to the next generation. (Joel 1:3)

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Rachmiel Tobesman is a motivational speaker and Maggid (spiritual Storyteller). He is available for speaking engagements or storytelling, Click here to contact us

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Chanukah

The Season of Lights – Chanukah is coming very quickly as it begins at Sundown

on November 28, 2021. Most people in the Jewish communities throughout the world can rattle off a list of Chanukah traditions such as lighting the menorah each night; playing dreidel games; eating foods cooked in oil (latkes and Sufganiot); and exchanging gifts.

An age old tradition is telling stories in the glow of the Chanukah menorah. The stories tell of greatness, nobility, and wisdom while at the same time raising the hopes for a better tomorrow.

The very backdrop to the spiritual stories is attractive to its readers allowing one to peek into the beliefs, and lifestyles of a vanishing age of a faraway world and reminding them that the messages are eternal – just as strong today as they were yesterday.

The book, Story Tour: The Journey Begins will remind readers of forgotten stories of faith that strengthen and reaffirm hope for a better world.

Buy a copy of Story Tour: The Journey Begins as a gift for someone special today. Story Tour: The Journey Begins is available from the publisher, Xlibris, Booksamillion, Barnes & Noble, and Amazon

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