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Who Is in Control of Whom?

Posted on Tuesday, 9, July, 2024Tuesday, 9, July, 2024 by Rabbi

A man was charged with committing a serious crime against the king and placed in prison until his trial. When it came time for him to stand trial, one of the king’s guards took him from his cell and escorted him to the place of justice.

The king’s guard, suspecting that the prisoner might try to escape, took a pair of handcuffs from his pocket. He then placed one of the cuffs around the wrist of the prisoner and the other one around his own wrist. In this way, they marched through the city street.

A crowd of spectators gathered along the sides of the street to curse and make fun of the prisoner.

Insulted and humiliated, the prisoner turned to the crowd and said, “You are making a mistake. He is not escorting me; rather, it is I who is es­corting him…”

prison chain

A wise man spoke up from among the many people in the crowd. “If that is the case,” he said, “then unlock the handcuff on your wrist! If you are capable of breaking free from your escort, it is a sign that you are in control of him. But if he can break away, then it proves that he is in control of you!”

The same thing applies to man and his yetzer hara – the evil inclination. There are instances when the yetzer hara binds himself to a person by accustoming him to a repeated transgression. If this person would like to know who is truly in control of whom, let him check himself to determine whether he is capable of breaking his “bad habits” or not.

This is precisely what we request in our morning prayers each day: “Let not the evil inclination – the yetzer hara – dominate us.”

May all your tales end with Shalom (peace)

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The Gift of Life

Posted on Monday, 21, March, 2022 by Rabbi

A king’s son was once walking along a forest path when he reached a clearing filled with many beautiful wonders. The prince stopped to see the rich green bushes, feel the soft moss and watch the colorful butterflies. He became lost in the magnificence around him. Suddenly, a band of highwaymen appeared from nowhere and attacked him. They intended to rob and murder him.

Much to his good fortune, beggar dressed in rags happened to be walking along the wooded trail at that very moment entered the clearing. When he saw the murderous band, he gathered up his courage and in a display of great strength, defeated them and saved the king’s son.

The king, upon hearing of the beggar’s bravery, had him sum­moned before him. When the beggar arrived, the king thanked him and proclaimed, “As a reward for saving my son, I hereby permit you to spend an entire day in the royal treasury; you may take anything that your heart desires.”

When the gates of the royal treasury were opened for the beggar, he joyously fell upon the massive piles of gold and diamonds, and be­gan to gather all that he could. Then he stopped and sat on a finely carved chair and began to think about what he was doing. Something changed within him.

When evening settled in and the beggar left the royal treasury, he had undergone a complete change. In one day, he had gone from being a penniless beggar to an extraordinarily wealthy man. The next day, this former beggar went into business, and in a short while he became very successful. He had now become one of the wealthiest men in the land, and he left his former life of poverty and deprivation behind.

Ecclesiastes 3:13

Every year, the former beggar staged a lavish feast on the day that he had been blessed with the good fortune of entering the royal trea­sury. He invited all his friends and relatives to the feast, and it was a custom that lasted for many years.

One year in the middle of the feast, the wealthy man turned to his friends and asked, “Which day of my life do you think was the hap­piest of all for me?”

“It must be this very day,” responded the guests. “This day on which you have made a feast for all of your friends must be the hap­piest day of your life! After all, on this day your mansion is decorated, your servants surround you, and all of the distinguished individuals in the land hold you in great regard!”

“You are mistaken,” said the wealthy man. “While this day is cer­tainly one of great joy, it is but a remembrance of the day on which I was remade, literally transformed from a lowly beggar in ragged clothing to a man possessing enormous wealth. That day was the happiest of my life.

“I spent that entire day,” he continued, “inside the royal treasury. I felt neither the pangs of hunger nor overwhelming weariness; rather, it was as if my complete being was focused on only one goal a change to myself. The more valuables I amassed, the more I thought I realized that money and riches could indeed help my physical needs, but to enjoy my new found wealth I had to change the way I felt about and saw myself. I have yet to experience a happier day than that one. It is important to remember “that whenever a man does eat and drink and get enjoyment out of all his wealth, it is a gift of G-d.” (Ecclesiastes 3:13)

So it is with people who strive to live what they believe. The Holy One, blessed be He grants each per­son life as a gift. Throughout life, people can amass as many compassionate and good deeds as their heart desires.

An individual who can view the world with this per­spective is truly the most praiseworthy. The only thing that prevents people from gaining such a perspective is our heart which has been dulled by the trivialities of this world.

May all your tales end with Shalom (peace)

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Tell it to your children, and let your children tell it to their children, and their children to the next generation. (Joel 1:3)

Rachmiel Tobesman is a motivational speaker and Maggid (spiritual Storyteller). He is available for speaking engagements or storytelling, Click here to contact us

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Posted in Charity, Faith, Religious Education, Spirituality, Stories, Tzedakah, UncategorizedTagged beggar, Ecclesiastes 3:13, Jewish Stories, Middos, parable, prince, Religious values, short stories, spiritual, Spirituality, wealthLeave a Comment on The Gift of Life

The Captain and the Innkeeper

Posted on Wednesday, 9, March, 2022Tuesday, 3, October, 2023 by Rabbi

A captain traveled with a special unit of trained soldiers at the command of the king to accomplish an important task. The road was long, and the sun was setting on the tired soldiers after two days journey. The captain spotted an inn and ordered his unit to stop there.

The innkeeper was delighted to merit the honor to host the captain on the king’s mission. He therefore tried his best to make his valued guests’ stay a pleasant one. In their honor, he set a table filled with good food, and when they had eaten their fill, he prepared comfortable beds that would provide them with a good night’s sleep.

Upon rising in the morning, the captain asked the innkeeper how much he owed for all the services, and the innkeeper requested a great deal of money.

The captain paid the full amount and thanked the innkeeper. He then took his place at the head of his unit and continued his journey, quickly forgetting all about the inn and the innkeeper.

Several days later, he arrived at another inn, and this time as well, was showered with extraordinary hospitality as the innkeeper went well beyond the call of duty. Wanting to please his guests, the innkeeper served them delicious food, fine drink, and provided them with comfortable sleeping arrangements as well.

The next day, the captain approached the innkeeper and requested to pay for his stay. The innkeeper, however, would not hear of it.

“Absolutely not” the innkeeper said to the captain. “It is both a pleasure and an honor that a great individual such as yourself would choose to stay at my inn. The honor you have accorded me will be my full compensation!”

Upon hearing the innkeeper’s heartfelt words, the captain was filled with tremendous affection for the simple man. He then commanded one of his soldiers to go and bring a particularly heavy chest from one of the wagons. Opening the chest, he removed beautiful jewelry and gems and presented them to the innkeeper.

“Here you go, my dear sir,” said the captain. “This is a small por­tion of the reward that you shall receive for the respect and loyalty that you have shown me. In addition, if you ever need anything from the king, do not hesitate to contact to me”

The captain went on his way, but never forgot the innkeeper and his kindness.

Pirkei Avos 1: 3

There are two types of servants of the Holy One, blessed be He. The first one serves in order to receive a re­ward. the Holy One, blessed be He certainly looks upon his Divine service favorably, but he receives only his due reward.

This is not the case, however, with one who serves the Holy One, blessed be He with joy over having merited to serve the King Above All Kings. His reward is many times greater and brings the Holy One, blessed be He much gratification.

The sages taught, “Be not as servants who serve the master for the sake of receiving of reward, but rather, be like servants who serve the master not for the sake of receiving a reward” (Pirkei Avos 1:3)

May all your tales end with Shalom (peace)

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Tell it to your children, and let your children tell it to their children, and their children to the next generation. (Joel 1:3)

Rachmiel Tobesman is a motivational speaker and Maggid (spiritual Storyteller). He is available for speaking engagements or storytelling, Click here to contact us

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Posted in Derech Eretz, Spirituality, Stories, Uncategorized, WisdomTagged honor, hospitalitysoldiers, Innkeeper, loyalty, Middos, Pirkei Avos 1: 3, Religious values, Respect, rewardLeave a Comment on The Captain and the Innkeeper

Who Is in Control of Whom?

Posted on Sunday, 24, October, 2021Tuesday, 20, September, 2022 by Rabbi

A man was charged with committing a serious crime against the king and was placed in prison until his trial. When it came time for him to stand trial, he was taken from his cell by one of the king’s guards to be escorted to the place of justice.

The king’s guard, suspecting that the prisoner might try to escape, took a pair of handcuffs from his pocket. He then placed one of the cuffs around the wrist of the prisoner and the other one around his own wrist. In this way, they marched through the city street.

A crowd of spectators gathered along the sides of the street to curse and make fun of the prisoner.

Insulted and humilated, the prisoner turned to the crowd and said, “You are making a mistake. He is not escorting me; rather, it is I who is es­corting him…”

A wise man spoke up from among the many people in the crowd. “If that is the case,” he said, “then unlock the handcuff on your wrist! If you are capable of breaking free from your escort, it is a sign that you are in control of him. But if he can break away, then it proves that he is in control of you!”

Teshuvah

The same thing applies to man and his yetzer hara – the evil inclination. There are instances when the yetzer hara binds himself to a person by accustoming him to a repeated transgression. If this person would like to know who is truly in control of whom, let him check himself to determine whether he is capable of breaking his “bad habits” or not.

This is precisely what we request in our morning prayers each day: “Let not the yetzer hara dominate us.”

May all your tales end with Shalom (peace)

Click here for more storytelling resources

Tell it to your children, and let your children tell it to their children, and their children to the next generation. (Joel 1:3)

Rachmiel Tobesman is a motivational speaker and Maggid (spiritual Storyteller). He is available for speaking engagements or storytelling, Click here to contact us

Please share this story with family and friends and let us know what you think or feel about the stories in a comment or two. Like us on Facebook or tweet us on Twitter

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Posted in Faith, Other Stories and thoughts, Religious Education, Stories, UncategorizedTagged Evil Inclination, Jewish Stories, parables, Religious values, short stories, Yetzer haraLeave a Comment on Who Is in Control of Whom?

The Confused Student

Posted on Wednesday, 6, May, 2020Monday, 15, January, 2024 by Rabbi

Tam and Chacham taught many students and listened to all who came to them for guidance. One student left his studies to help his struggling family.

Some time passed and no one heard from the student. In time he was forgotten. One day the student came to visit his old teachers Tam and Chacham.

He explained how hard it was to leave his studies, but he found a well paying job in a field that involved mixing freely with men and women in a relaxed atmosphere. He went on to say, “You would be proud of me, I think of your lessons all through my working hours, and never once had any inappropriate thoughts.”

Chacham thought for a moment and said, “From a woman did sin originate, and because of her we must all die. (ben Sira 25:24) By preventing yourself from getting involved with the people at your job, you may actually live longer.”

The student added, “I don’t talk to the women nor notice what they wear. The men ask me all the time to eat with them, but their food and what they talk about is not kosher.” The student noticed that Tam shook his head.

Chacham responded,” we learn that ’whoever engages in too much conversation with women, brings evil on himself, neglects the study of Torah and in the end will inherit gehennom’ (Pirke Avos 1:5). I’d say you learned your lessons well.”

Religious Beliefs in Society

Tam quietly asked the student for his name. The student was taken aback. His rabbi and teacher certainly must remember his name. Tam waited a moment and then said, “You have listened, but not learned ’The Holy One, Blessed be He created all things in accordance with His wisdom and whatever He created cannot possibly be shameful or ugly’ (Iggeres haKodesh 13th cent.) Please give me your mother’s name so I can make a proper Mi Shebeirach (a prayer for healing) for you.’ “

The student was confused. He felt well and he thought to himself why would his teacher want to make a Mi Shebeirach for him?

Tam saw the confusion in the face of his student and answered, “I am an old man. Yet, I can hardly walk down the street from my house without fighting off some unwanted thought. You claim that as a young man in the prime of life, you entertain no unholy thoughts. Surely there must be something wrong with you! I will make a Mi Shebeirach for you to have a refuah sheleima (complete recovery)!”

May all your tales end with Shalom (peace)

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Tell it to your children, and let your children tell it to their children, and their children to the next generation. (Joel 1:3)

Rachmiel Tobesman is a motivational speaker and Maggid (spiritual Storyteller). He is available for speaking engagements or storytelling, Click here to contact us

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Posted in Derech Eretz, Faith, friendship, Other Stories and thoughts, Rabbi's thoughts and teaching, Religious Education, Stories, Tam and Chacham, Torah, Woman, WomanTagged ben Sira 25:24, Iggeres haKodesh, Mi Shebeirach, Middos, Pirke Avos 1:5, Refuah sheleima, Religious values, Spirituality, womenLeave a Comment on The Confused Student

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